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  (CBT) Worksheet for Anxiety related issues in relationship communications: Overview This worksheet is designed for individuals dealing with high Anxiety who are experiencing relationship communication issues. The goal is to help develop improved communication skills through cognitive-behavioral techniques, specifically using thought challenging. Goals Identify and challenge anxious thoughts related to communication in relationships. Improve communication skills by practicing effective dialogue techniques. Develop actionable steps to implement in daily interactions. Section 1: Recognizing Anxious Thoughts Exercise 1: Thought Record In the space below, write down any anxious thoughts you have related to your communication in relationships. Consider the situations that trigger these thoughts. Date:___________ Who were you communicating to: _______________________________________________________ Describe Situation:______________________________________...

  What is a Trauma event(s) A traumatic event is an incident that causes physical, emotional, spiritual, or psychological harm. It is an event that leave a person feeling threatened, frightened, or overwhelmed. Examples include accidents, natural disasters, violence, abuse, or witnessing a distressing event. It is triggers the human Fight or Flight which response to the maximum that often leaves a person stuck int fight, flight or freeze mode, this can trigger the trauma response system (TRS). What is a Trauma Response? Trauma responses refer to the psychological, emotional, and physical reactions individuals may experience after encountering a traumatic event. This is a human defense system! The trauma response system (TRS) allows humans to survive horrible event(s) including accidents, abuse, violence, loss, natural disasters and long term trauma exposure. Once your trauma response system is activated it can fail to stop protecting you long after the trauma event(s) are...

What is Male Trauma? Male trauma refers to the psychological, emotional, and physical effects of experiencing or witnessing traumatic events. This can include, but is not limited to, childhood abuse, domestic violence, toxic relationship's, divorce, bullying, vehicle accidents, military combat experiences, and loss or grief.  It is crucial to recognize that men may experience trauma differently than women, often leading to under-reporting and a lack of support. Common Symptoms of Trauma in Men  Emotional Symptoms:  Anxiety, depression, anger, irritability, emotional numbness. Traumatized men tend to become emotionless or extremely emotional. like in all humans trauma redefines our emotions and how we experience them as a child and into adulthood.  Physical Symptoms : Insomnia, fatigue, headaches, chronic pain Trauma in men often comes out in the physical because the emotional damage projects through the body.  Behavioral Symptoms:  Substance abuse, withdra...

  IF YOU READ THIS BLOG, DO NOT FEEL BAD FOR ME - ALL INFORMATION HAS BEEN WRITTEN AFTER I HAVE WORKED THROUGH IT AND/OR AM FULLY AWARE OF IT AND MAINTAINED SUPPORT FOR IT.                                                              Photo by  Susan Wilkinson  on  Unsplash PLEASE READ THIS TO UNDERSTAND HOW OTHERS ARE FEELING!    As someone who has experienced the cancer journey and works as a counselor, I have seen firsthand the significant mental effects cancer has from diagnosis to recovery.  People often share stories of battling cancer, whether they win or lose. While this connection is important, the mental process of dealing with cancer is still far less discussed. Many people don't realize that the mental impact of non-terminal cancer can be more severe than the ...

  Understanding ADHD and Trauma Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by symptoms of inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsiveness. Adults with ADHD may struggle with time management, organization, maintaining focus, hyper-awareness, and a sense of being overwhelmed. Trauma can stem from various experiences such as emotional, physical, or sexual abuse in childhood, being the victim or witnessing violence, sudden loss, or even long-term exposure to chronic stressors such as poverty. Trauma can significantly impact how an individual manages their ADHD symptoms. For individuals navigating ADHD while experiencing the effects of past trauma, it can complicate daily life. Trauma can exacerbate ADHD symptoms, leading to increased unstable emotional responses to simple daily interactions.  Trauma and ADHD can trigger anxiety, depression, and emotional regulation challenges. Conversely, ADHD can worsen trauma triggers by ...

  Balancing Political Fear and Emotions What is Political Fear? Political fear is a psychological response to perceived threats related to political systems, leaders, or events.  It can manifest as anxiety, stress, or a sense of helplessness, often intensified during election seasons, post-election political upheavals, or societal changes. Many people in the USA right now are particularly sensitive to the changing political dynamics as they navigate their roles in family, work, and civic life. No matter what your political viewpoint is, there are a lot of changes happening, and this can cause fear and mental disruption.   Use this simple guide to help bring your mind into balance and bring positive mental health focus.  1. Identify Your Triggers Self-awareness :  Recognize what “specific” political issues or events trigger feelings of fear or anxiety. This might include reading headlines or watching news coverage,  scrolling  social ...

                                                                        Photo by Abyan Athif on Unsplash   Positive Focus: in a Negative World   Introduction In our fast-paced and often stressful lives, it’s easy to become overwhelmed by negativity and challenges. A positive focus involves shifting our attention to the positive aspects of our experiences and developing a mindset that fosters resilience, happiness, and overall well-being. This blog explores the concept of a positive focus, provides practical journaling assignments, and offers resources for further reading and support. The Importance of a Positive Focus In times where we hear and see 99% negative information, we have to be INTENTIONAL about seeing good and positive things! Intentional ...