Everything in balance

  The Power of Calm in the Face of Negativity Ai Generated photo Negative people are everywhere—at work, online, in families, and sometimes even within our closest circles. While we can’t always control their behavior, we can control how we respond. Remaining calm, being deliberate, and thinking through our reactions are powerful tools that protect our peace and reflect our character. Calm is not weakness; it is strength. When someone approaches us with anger, criticism, or passive-aggressive comments, the natural instinct is to react immediately. However, reacting emotionally often gives negativity more power. Calmness creates space between what is said and how we respond.  In that space, we regain control of ourselves. A calm response can de-escalate tension, prevent unnecessary conflict, and keep us grounded in who we are. It give US the power to choose our own emotions not just let a random reaction cause trouble.  Deliberate responses lead to better outcomes. B...

If the holidays feel heavy this year, you are not alone. Here are 3 gentle reminders to help you breathe a little easier:                    Photo from unspalsh  1. Protect Your Peace. Yes! You can say no and set boundaries and still enjoy your holiday season! It’s okay to step back from the noise, the expectations, and the pressure to “be festive.” Your energy matters as much as any tradition. Choose what nourishes you. 2. Celebrate Small Wins. Depression can only win if you stop moving forward. Little thing give you power for the next thing - just getting out of bed, answering one message, taking a shower, or simply taking a deep breath—these all count. Healing often happens in tiny moments that don’t look like progress but truly are. 3. Stay Connected in Your Own Way. Reach out to one person, even with a simple “thinking of you.” You don’t have to be cheerful to be loved or give love. You just have to show up as you are for othe...

 The holiday season, while filled with celebration and connection, often brings a surprising amount of pressure. Between family expectations, financial demands, and the rush to “make everything perfect,” stress can build quickly. Fortunately, there are simple and intentional ways to reclaim calm during this busy time. Photo by Octavian Iordache on Unsplash One powerful strategy is setting boundaries . Holidays tend to blur personal limits—saying yes to every event, every request, and every responsibility. Choosing what truly matters and letting go of the rest can create space to breathe. Whether that means declining an invitation, limiting spending, or carving out quiet time, boundaries help protect both energy and emotional well-being. Another way to destress is by embracing small rituals of self-care . These don’t need to be elaborate: a warm cup of tea before bed, a morning walk in cold air, a few minutes of journaling, or playing a favorite holiday playlist. Consistent micro-...